Why Saying No Feels Like Betrayal: How to Stop People-Pleasing

Why Saying No Feels Like Betrayal: How to Stop People-Pleasing

For many women of color, saying no can be difficult to do and carry a heavy emotional weight.  It’s not just uncomfortable or awkward. Sometimes saying “no” can feel like a betrayal. You might know logically that you’re allowed to set boundaries. You may even...
How Attachment Styles Shape Every Relationship You Have

How Attachment Styles Shape Every Relationship You Have

You know that feeling when you’re in a new relationship and suddenly you’re analyzing everything?  Why did they take three hours to text back? Why do you feel anxious when they go out with friends? Or maybe you’re the one who needs space the moment...
How Do I Stop Living for Other People’s Expectations?

How Do I Stop Living for Other People’s Expectations?

Written by Amy Huang, LAPC – Amy Huang is an Asian therapist in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and New Jersey who has the capacity to provide therapy in both Cantonese Chinese and English. As a child of two Chinese immigrants, she has firsthand experience navigating the...