Healing From Birth Trauma: A Mother’s Day Guide for New Moms

Healing From Birth Trauma: A Mother’s Day Guide for New Moms

For many, there is an assumption that Mother’s Day “should” be joyful with flowers, breakfast in bed, or a special card with small handprints pressed in paint. The world has a very specific idea of what motherhood looks like on the second Sunday of May, and it...
Why Code Switching Is Draining You More Than You Realize

Why Code Switching Is Draining You More Than You Realize

There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes not from doing too much, but from constantly editing yourself.  It settles in quietly, somewhere between the moment you walk into a room and the moment you decide how to hold your face, choose your words, and adjust...
Why Saying No Feels Like Betrayal: How to Stop People-Pleasing

Why Saying No Feels Like Betrayal: How to Stop People-Pleasing

For many women of color, saying no can be difficult to do and carry a heavy emotional weight.  It’s not just uncomfortable or awkward. Sometimes saying “no” can feel like a betrayal. You might know logically that you’re allowed to set boundaries. You may even...